You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I'm not putting any of this well. I am not and never have been an intellectual. I am not articulate, and the subjects that I am trying to describe and discuss are beyond my abilities. I am trying, however, the best I can, and will go back over this as carefully as possible when I am finished, and will make changes and corrections whenever I can see a way to make what I'm discussing clearer or more interesting without fabricating anything.
Interpretation
This quote reflects humility in recognizing one's limitations in expressing complex ideas.
David Foster Wallace expresses his struggle with articulating profound concepts, acknowledging his lack of intellectual eloquence. He emphasizes the importance of making an effort to communicate honestly and clearly, demonstrating that while he may not possess the skills of a great thinker or speaker, he is committed to improving his expression and making his ideas more accessible and engaging.
In practice
During a speech about the challenges of effective communication.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
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A little insomnia is not without its value in making us appreciate sleep, in throwing a ray of light upon that darkness.
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By a peculiar prerogative, not only each individual is making daily advances in the sciences, and may make advances in morality (which is the science, by way of eminence, of living well and being happy), but all mankind together is making a continual progress in proportion as the universe grows older. So that the whole human race, during the course of so many ages, may be considered as one man who never ceases to live and learn.
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The great mystery isn't that people do things badly but that they occasionally do a few things well. The only thing that is universal is incompetence. Strength is always specific! Nobody ever commented, for example, that the great violinist Jascha Heifetz probably couldn't play the trumpet very well.
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