It is impossible to forgive someone if you feel superior to him or her.
Interpretation
Forgiveness requires equality in perceived value between individuals.
This quote by Timothy Keller emphasizes that true forgiveness cannot occur if one party sees themselves as better or superior to the other. For forgiveness to be genuine, there must be a recognition of equal worth and humanity, which allows for empathy and reconciliation. When we regard others as equals, we can understand their mistakes and shortcomings, facilitating the healing process that forgiveness brings.
In practice
During a therapy session, a counselor might use this quote to help clients understand the dynamics of their conflicts.
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