QuoteProject
An individual in despair despairs over something. . . . In despairing over something, he really despair[s] over himself, and now he wants to get rid of himself. Consequently, to despair over something is still not despair proper. . . . To despair over oneself, in despair to will to be rid of oneself-this is the formula for all despair.
Soren Kierkegaard
ShareWTF𝕏

Interpretation

What this quote means

Despair is ultimately a reflection of one's internal conflict rather than an external situation.

Kierkegaard suggests that true despair is not merely about the circumstances surrounding an individual but is a deeper conflict with oneself. When someone despairs over an issue, they are actually confronting their own shortcomings and a desire to escape from their own identity, highlighting the complex interplay between self-perception and emotional turmoil.

Themes

DespairSelfIdentityConflictPhilosophyExistentialism

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a mental health seminar to discuss the importance of self-acceptance.

More from Soren Kierkegaard

Faith is the highest passion in a human being. Many in every generation may not come that far, but none comes further.
Soren KierkegaardRead
Men think that it is impossible for a human being to love his enemies, for enemies are hardly able to endure the sight of one another. Well, then, shut your eyes--and your enemy looks just like your neighbor.
Soren KierkegaardRead
How did I get into the world? Why was I not asked about it and why was I not informed of the rules and regulations but just thrust into the ranks as if I had been bought by a peddling shanghaier of human beings? How did I get involved in this big enterprise called actuality? Why should I be involved? Isn't it a matter of choice? And if I am compelled to be involved, where is the manager—I have something to say about this. Is there no manager? To whom shall I make my complaint?
Soren KierkegaardRead
A possibility is a hint from God. One must follow it.
Soren KierkegaardRead
And when the hourglass has run out, the hourglass of temporality, when the noise of secular life has grown silent and its restless or ineffectual activism has come to an end, when everything around you is still, as it is in eternity, then eternity asks you and every individual in these millions and millions about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not.
Soren KierkegaardRead
I am so stupid that I cannot understand philosophy; the antithesis of this is that philosophy is so clever that it cannot comprehend my stupidity. These antitheses are mediated in a higher unity; in our common stupidity.
Soren KierkegaardRead

Similar quotes

The test of Ahimsa is absence of jealousy.
Swami VivekanandaRead
Constitutions should consist only of general provisions; the reason is that they must necessarily be permanent, and that they cannot calculate for the possible change of things.
Alexander HamiltonRead
Modern liberalism, for most liberals is not a consciously understood set of rational beliefs, but a bundle of unexamined prejudices and conjoined sentiments. The basic ideas and beliefs seem more satisfactory when they are not made fully explicit, when they merely lurk rather obscurely in the background, coloring the rhetoric and adding a certain emotive glow.
James BurnhamRead
A thousand deaths would still be less than he deserves.
George R. R. MartinRead
Nothing is softer or more flexible than water, yet nothing can resist it.
LaoziRead
I was a personality before I became a person - I am simple, complex, generous, selfish, unattractive, beautiful, lazy and driven.
Barbra StreisandRead

A little wisdom, now and then

Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.