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An individual in despair despairs over something. . . . In despairing over something, he really despair[s] over himself, and now he wants to get rid of himself. Consequently, to despair over something is still not despair proper. . . . To despair over oneself, in despair to will to be rid of oneself-this is the formula for all despair.
Soren Kierkegaard
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Despair is ultimately a reflection of one's internal conflict rather than an external situation.

Kierkegaard suggests that true despair is not merely about the circumstances surrounding an individual but is a deeper conflict with oneself. When someone despairs over an issue, they are actually confronting their own shortcomings and a desire to escape from their own identity, highlighting the complex interplay between self-perception and emotional turmoil.

Themes

DespairSelfIdentityConflictPhilosophyExistentialism

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a mental health seminar to discuss the importance of self-acceptance.

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