When it comes to your inner critic, my advice is to not take advice from someone who doesn't like you. That's like returning to the perpetrator for healing after you've been abused.
Boy lovers and the lesbians who have young lovers... are not child molesters. The child abusers are priests, teachers, therapists, cops and parents w… - Patrick Califia
Boy lovers and the lesbians who have young lovers... are not child molesters. The child abusers are priests, teachers, therapists, cops and parents w…
- Patrick Califia
When it comes to your inner critic, my advice is to not take advice from someone who doesn't like you. That's like returning to the perpetrator for h… - Patrick Califia
When it comes to your inner critic, my advice is to not take advice from someone who doesn't like you. That's like returning to the perpetrator for h…
Why do I write? I write because I have to, because it is all I know, because it is my truth, because I am compelled, because I am driven to make the … - Patrick Califia
Why do I write? I write because I have to, because it is all I know, because it is my truth, because I am compelled, because I am driven to make the …
This is one of the reasons we need to transition: people can't validate an identity they can't see. - Patrick Califia
This is one of the reasons we need to transition: people can't validate an identity they can't see.
A lot of people who are depressed, I think, are suffering from blocked creativity. - Patrick Califia
A lot of people who are depressed, I think, are suffering from blocked creativity.
SM is an art. Doing it well requires more than a bag full of expensive whips and exotic electrical toys, a closet full of fetish clothes, or a baseme… - Patrick Califia
SM is an art. Doing it well requires more than a bag full of expensive whips and exotic electrical toys, a closet full of fetish clothes, or a baseme…
If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no … - Patrick Califia
If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no …
As an activist, you gotta pick something that's particularly interesting to you and go for it - because there's no shortage of things to do. And it's… - Patrick Califia
As an activist, you gotta pick something that's particularly interesting to you and go for it - because there's no shortage of things to do. And it's…
If you live in a society that wishes you didn't exist, anything you do to make yourself happy disrupts its attempts to wipe you out, or at the very l… - Patrick Califia
If you live in a society that wishes you didn't exist, anything you do to make yourself happy disrupts its attempts to wipe you out, or at the very l…
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