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It bothers them that instead of taking on the role of abandoned lover, I have become a happy wife. They relish seeing strong women like you and me humiliated. They cannot forgive us that we triumphed where so many others fail...Courage is a virtue appreciated in a male but considered a defect in our gender. Bold women are a threat to a world that is out of balance, in favor of men. That is why they work so hard to mistreat and destroy us.
Isabel Allende
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What this quote means

The quote highlights the difficulties faced by strong women in a patriarchal society and emphasizes the importance of resilience.

In this quote, Isabel Allende expresses the societal discomfort with strong women who refuse to fit traditional roles. She points out that instead of being seen as victims, women who embrace their happiness and strength disturb a status quo that prefers to see them humiliated. Allende suggests that courage in women is often viewed negatively, posing a threat to a male-dominated world, and this fear drives efforts to undermine women's success.

Themes

CourageStrong WomenPatriarchyResilienceEmpowerment

In practice

Example use cases

In a women's empowerment event, to inspire attendees that true strength comes from self-acceptance.

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