Go forward with joyful confidence.
George EliotRead
The intense happiness of our union is derived in a high degree from the perfect freedom with which we each follow and declare our own impressions.
Interpretation
True happiness in a relationship comes from the freedom to express individual thoughts and feelings.
In this quote, George Eliot emphasizes that the joy experienced in a union or relationship is significantly enhanced by the ability of both individuals to openly share and pursue their own thoughts and feelings. This mutual freedom creates a deeper connection and appreciation for one another, as each partner respects and values the other's individuality.
In practice
In a wedding speech, to highlight the importance of personal freedom in a successful marriage.
Go forward with joyful confidence.
You must love your work, and not be always looking over the edge of it, wanting your play to begin. And the other is, you must not be ashamed of your work, and think it would be more honorable to you to be doing something else. You must have a pride in your own work and in learning to do it well.
She thought it was part of the hardship of her life that there was laid upon her the burthen of larger wants than others seemed to feel β that she had to endure this wide hopeless yearning for that something, whatever it was, that was greatest and best on this earth.
Life seems to go on without effort when I am filled with music.
I think I should have no other mortal wants, if I could always have plenty of music. It seems to infuse strength into my limbs and ideas into my brain. Life seems to go on without effort, when I am filled with music.
Our dead are never dead to us until we have forgotten them: they can be injured by us, they can be wounded; they know all our penitence, all our aching sense that their place is empty, all the kisses we bestow on the smallest relic of their presence.
Present-day American society-whether through pop culture, religion, or institutions-conflates sexuality and morality constantly. Idolizing virginity as a stand-in for womenβs morality means that nothing else matters-not what we accomplish, not what we think, not what we care about and work for. Just if/how/whom we have sex with. Thatβs all.
It's important to slow down, every now and then, for no other reason than to call someone to say 'Hi.' It doesn't have to be a long conversation. Just calling out of the blue does more to let someone know you still care about them than nearly anything else.
Only married people understand you can be miserable and happy at the same time.
In every democracy, it is the people's will that is supreme. We should translate the intense yearning of the people of India and Pakistan for friendship into meaningful measures of cooperation in every walk of life.
At twenty-five, girls begin to talk about being old maids, but secretly resolve that they never will. At thirty, they say nothing about it, but quietly accept the fact.
A system could not well have been devised more studiously hostile to human happiness than marriage.
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