If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat.
Simone De BeauvoirRead
Those interested in perpetuating present conditions are always in tears about the marvelous past that is about to disappear, without having so much as a smile for the young future.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on how some people lament over the loss of the past while neglecting the potential of the future.
Simone De Beauvoir's quote critiques individuals who cling to nostalgia and mourn for the bygone days, expressing concern over the loss of what was while failing to appreciate or invest in the new generation and the future that lies ahead. It suggests a need for balance, urging people to not just romanticize the past but also to embrace and nurture what is yet to come.
In practice
During a lecture on social change, I quoted this to emphasize the importance of focusing on young people's potential.
If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat.
Two separate beings, in different circumstances, face to face in freedom and seeking justification of their existence through one another, will always live an adventure full of risk and promise." (p. 248)
To catch a husband is an art; to hold him is a job.
Sex pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken.
As long as there have been men and they have lived, they have all felt this tragic ambiguity of their condition, but as long as there have been philosophers and they have thought, most of them have tried to mask it.
Few tasks are more like the torture of Sisyphus than housework, with its endless repetition: the clean becomes soiled, the soiled is made clean, over and over, day after day. The housewife wears herself out marking time: she makes nothing, simply perpetuates the present β¦ Eating, sleeping, cleaning β the years no longer rise up towards heaven, they lie spread out ahead, grey and identical. The battle against dust and dirt is never won.
The world will be changed by western women.
I personally think that gentrification happens long before you start seeing white people in formerly people-of-color neighborhoods. It starts happening when we start telling the young, hard-working, quote-unquote 'smart' kids that they need to measure success by how far they get away from our communities.
Change will not come from above, it will come from below, from the small and medium size businesspeople. They do dare to show their faces. They applaud us and help us financially.
Where were you when the world stopped turning on that September day?
Everything is perpetually becoming new.
After winter comes the summer. After night comes the dawn. And after every storm, there comes clear, open skies.
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