When you stay present with your children, that’s where abundance is. And when you stay out of their business, that’s where everything you deserve in life is. When you’re in presence, there’s no story, and you are abundance. And you come to trust that space so often that you just eventually hang out as that, because there is nothing that can move you out of it, not even a perceived child or a perceived anything.
As you inquire into issues and turn judgments around, you come to see that every perceived problem appearing "out there" is really nothing more than a misperception within your own thinking.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that our perceptions of problems are often influenced by our own thoughts and judgments.
Byron Katie's quote suggests that the difficulties we face in life are not necessarily based on external circumstances, but rather stem from our own interpretations and judgments of those circumstances. It invites us to examine our thoughts and beliefs, highlighting the idea that what we see as problems 'out there' might actually be reflections of our internal state. This perspective encourages self-inquiry and the reconsideration of our own thinking as a way to find clarity and peace.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop focused on personal growth, this quote can be shared to encourage participants to reflect on their reactions to challenges.
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All quotes →It is easy to be swept away by some overwhelming feeling, so it's helpful to remember that any stressful feeling is like a compassionate alarm clock that says, "You're caught in the dream."
We don't attach to people or to things; we attach to uninvestigated concepts that we believe to be true in the moment.
An unquestioned mind is the world of suffering.
Hurt feelings or discomfort of any kind cannot be cause by another person. No one outside me can hurt me. That’s not a possibility. It’s only when I believe a stressful thought that I get hurt. And I’m the one who’s hurting me by believing what I think. This is very good news, because it means that I don’t have to get someone else to stop hurting me. I’m the one who can stop hurting me. It’s within my power.
I am a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality.
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