What I've noticed is that almost no one who was a big star in high school is also big star later in life. For us overlooked kids, it's so wonderfully fair.
Interpretation
High school popularity does not guarantee future success, and the overlooked often have better outcomes in life.
This quote by Mindy Kaling highlights the idea that the social hierarchies established in high school are often temporary and superficial. Many individuals who were once considered 'big stars' in school may not find the same level of success in adulthood, while those who were overlooked often thrive and achieve their goals, illustrating the unpredictability of life and the importance of perseverance.
In practice
During a school reunion, to remind classmates that life after high school can be very different.
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