Now, five years is nothing in a man's life except when he is very young and very old... - Wang Lung
Pearl S. BuckRead
The lack of emotional security of our American young people is due, I believe, to their isolation from the larger family unit. No two people - no mere father and mother - as I have often said, are enough to provide emotional security for a child. He needs to feel himself one in a world of kinfolk, persons of variety in age and temperament, and yet allied to himself by an indissoluble bond which he cannot break if he could, for nature has welded him into it before he was born.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Emotional security for children comes from a strong familial connection, not just from parents.
In this quote, Pearl S. Buck emphasizes the importance of a broader family unit for the emotional well-being of young people. She argues that children require a sense of belonging that extends beyond just their parents, needing connections to a community of relatives who provide diverse interactions and support, thus fostering a deeper sense of security and identity that is critical for their development.
Themes
Emotional SecurityFamilyBelongingChildrenConnections
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about community values, one might reference this quote to highlight the role of the extended family.
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