They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
It was too late for happiness - but not too late to be helped by the thought of what I had missed. That is all I haved lived on - don't take it from me now
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the idea that while true happiness may be out of reach, one can still find solace in memories of what was lost.
In this quote, Edith Wharton expresses a poignant reflection on missed opportunities for happiness. It suggests that although time may have passed and happiness seems unattainable, the memories and thoughts of what could have been provide a crucial source of support and comfort. This idea emphasizes the value of nostalgia and the emotional strength derived from remembering joyful possibilities, even when they are no longer accessible.
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Example use cases
In a speech about overcoming adversity, I might quote Edith Wharton to highlight the importance of holding onto positive memories.
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And I wonder, among all the tangles of this mortal coil, which one contains tighter knots to undo, & consequently suggests more tugging, & pain, & diversified elements of misery, than the marriage tie.
As he paid the hansom and followed his wife's long train into the house he took refuge in the comforting platitude that the first six months were always the most difficult in marriage. 'After that I suppose we shall have pretty nearly finished rubbing off each otherβs angles,' he reflected; but the worst of it was that May's pressure was already bearing on the very angles whose sharpness he most wanted to keep
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