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It now lately sometimes seemed a black miracle to me that people could actually care deeply about a subject or pursuit, and could go on caring this way for years on end. Could dedicate their entire lives to it. It seemed admirable and at the same time pathetic. We are all dying to give our lives away to something, maybe.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the human desire to dedicate oneself fully to a passion or cause, evoking both admiration and a sense of tragedy.
David Foster Wallace's quote highlights the paradox of intense dedication to a subject or pursuit: while it is admirable to care deeply and commit one's life to something, it can also appear somewhat sad or even misguided. This duality reveals a fundamental aspect of the human experience—a yearning to find meaning and significance in life through devotion, despite the inevitable impermanence of our existence.
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Example use cases
During a motivational speech about following one's passion, you might use this quote to illustrate the depth of dedication.
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