Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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Learn to distinguish what you can and can't control. Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires and the things that repel us. They are directly subject to our influence.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Understand the limits of your control over situations and focus on what you can change.
This quote by Epictetus emphasizes the importance of recognizing the difference between what we can control and what we cannot. By understanding that our opinions, desires, and reactions are within our control, we can cultivate a mindset that focuses on personal empowerment and emotional resilience, leading to a more fulfilling life.
Themes
ControlOpinionsEmotionsResilienceInfluence
In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, someone can use this quote to remind others to focus on their perspectives instead of outside circumstances.
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