As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
William ShakespeareRead
LEONATO Well, niece, I hope to see you one day fitted with a husband. BEATRICE Not till God make men of some other metal than earth. Would it not grieve a woman to be overmastered with a pierce of valiant dust? to make an account of her life to a clod of wayward marl? No, uncle, I'll none: Adam's sons are my brethren; and, truly, I hold it a sin to match in my kindred.
Interpretation
Beatrice expresses her disdain for marrying men who are flawed and earthly, suggesting that true compatibility is rare.
In this quote from Shakespeare's 'Much Ado About Nothing', Beatrice articulates her reluctance to marry, criticizing the nature of men as being made from 'earth' and not worthy of her affection. She implies that to submit to a man is to be 'overmastered' by something inferior, as she values individuality and strength over societal expectations of marriage, viewing her male counterparts as flawed and unworthy of a union with her.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a discussion on modern relationships and the importance of mutual respect.
As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
Love bears it out even to the edge of doom.
Good company, good wine, good welcome, can make good people.
Absence doth sharpen love, presence strengthens it; the one brings fuel, the other blows it till it burns clear.
Lord, Lord, how this world is given to lying!
Give it an understanding, but no tongue.
Each of us must be committed to maintaining the reputation of all of us. And all of us must be committed to maintaining the reputation of each of us.
Social acceptance, 'being liked,' has so much power because it holds the feelings of loneliness at bay.
There are few who would not rather be taken in adultery than in provocation.
What is faithfulness, anyway? Can you be unfaithful to your own feelings and faithful to someone else? Is it faithful to lie in bed night after night with someone you love but no longer desire while ardently dreaming of someone else?
In two areas above all others the Christian demonstration of love and communication stands clear: in the area of the Christian couple and their children; and in the personal relationships of Christians in the church. If there is no demonstration in these two places, on the personal level, the world can conclude that orthodox Christian doctrine is nothing but dead, cold words.
The person doing the worrying experiences it as a form of love; the person being worried about experiences it as a form of control.
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