How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
Stephen CoveyRead
As you care less about what people think of you, you will care more about what others think of themselves.
Interpretation
Focusing less on others' opinions leads to greater empathy and understanding of their perspectives.
This quote by Stephen Covey emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and how it affects our interactions with others. When we free ourselves from the burden of seeking approval, we become more attuned to the feelings and thoughts of those around us, fostering deeper relationships and promoting a culture of empathy. It suggests that caring less about societal judgments allows us to redirect our attention to supporting and understanding others better.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal growth.
How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
If you want to have a more pleasant, cooperative teenager, be a more understanding, empathic, consistent, loving parent. If you want to have more freedom, more latitude in your job, be a more responsible, a more helpful, a more contributing employee.
Listen with your eyes for feelings.
If we live out of our memory, we're tied to the past and to that which is finite. When we live out of our imagination, _x000D_ we're tied to that which is infinite.
Synergy is the highest activity of life; it creates new untapped alternatives; it values and exploits the mental, emotional, and psychological differences between people.
Keep in mind that you are always saying "no" to something. If it isn't to the apparent and urgent things in your life, it is probably to the most fundamental, highly important things.
Look behind you: What have you learned? Look around you: What is happening to others? Look above you: What does God expect of you? Look besides you: What resources are available to you?
There is a luxury in self-reproach. When we blame ourselves we feel no one else has a right to blame us.
You cannot go around and keep score. If you keep score on the good things and the bad things, you'll find out that you're a very miserable person. God gave man the ability to forget, which is one of the greatest attributes you have. Because if you remember everything that's happened to you, you generally remember that which is the most unfortunate.
Most people use their energy attempting to rearrange circumstances that trigger painful emotions. Changing external circumstances will not change your rigid patterns of emotional response. That requires looking at the patterns themselves.
If you take the approach that βgoodβ is not an accident - that everyone and everything that shows up in your life is there for a reason - youβll begin to see every event (no matter how difficult or challenging) as a chance for enrichment and advancement in your life.
I'm a very old man. _x000D_ I've had lots of problems. _x000D_ Most of them never happened..!
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