Solidarity does not assume that our struggles are the same struggles, or that our pain is the same pain, or that our hope is for the same future. Solidarity involves commitment, and work, as well as the recognition that even if we do not have the same feelings, or the same lives, or the same bodies, we do live on common ground.
Let’s take this figure of the feminist killjoy seriously. Does the feminist kill other people’s joy by pointing out moments of sexism? Or does she expose the bad feelings that get hidden, displaced, or negated under public signs of joy? Does bad feeling enter the room when somebody expresses anger about things, or could anger be the moment when the bad feelings that circulate through objects get brought to the surface in a certain way?
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What this quote means
The feminist killjoy challenges societal norms by shedding light on underlying sexism, disrupting the facade of happiness to address real issues.
In this quote, Sara Ahmed explores the role of the feminist killjoy, questioning whether such individuals ruin joy by highlighting sexism or actually reveal the hidden discomforts associated with societal happiness. By doing so, she suggests that confronting these often-neglected negative emotions can lead to a more genuine and transformative dialogue around issues like sexism, prompting reflection rather than mere acceptance of public joy.
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In a seminar on gender studies, this quote can spark a discussion about how feminism confronts societal norms.
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