As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
William ShakespeareRead
And, if you love me, as I think you do, let's kiss and part, for we have much to do
Interpretation
The quote speaks about the bittersweet nature of love and the necessity of parting to pursue individual goals.
In this quote, Shakespeare captures the essence of love intertwined with the realities of life—suggesting that true love acknowledges the need for separation in order to fulfill personal aspirations. It reflects the understanding that while love is significant, individuals must also tend to their own responsibilities and pursuits.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of pursuing dreams even in a relationship.
As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
Love bears it out even to the edge of doom.
Good company, good wine, good welcome, can make good people.
Absence doth sharpen love, presence strengthens it; the one brings fuel, the other blows it till it burns clear.
Lord, Lord, how this world is given to lying!
Give it an understanding, but no tongue.
As to the deceit perpetrated upon women, let it pass, for, when love is in the way, men and women as a general rule dupe each other.
Now they are a circle, and they vibrate together, they pulsate together. Their hearts are no longer separate, their beats are no longer separate, they have become a melody, a harmony. It is the greatest music possible, all other musics are just faint things compared to it, shadow things compared to it.
Cecilia wondered, as she sometimes did when she met a man for the first time, if this was the one she was going to marry, and whether it was this particular moment she would remember for the rest of her life - with gratitude, or profound and particular regret.
Dear young people, don't be afraid to marry. A faithful and fruitful marriage will bring you happiness.
I want you to try and remember what it was like to have been very young. And particularly the days when you were first in love; when you were like a person sleepwalking, and you didn’t quite see the street you were in, and didn’t quite hear everything that was said to you. You’re just a little bit crazy. Will you remember that, please?
One is never too old for romance.
Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.