I think the earlier stages of Alzheimer's are the hardest. Particularly because the person knows that they are losing awareness. They're aware that they're losing awareness, and you see them struggling.
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Life Lesson 3: You can't rush grief. It has its own timetable. All you can do is make sure there are lots of soft places around - beds, pillows, arms, laps.
Interpretation
Grief takes time to heal, and it cannot be hurried. Surrounding oneself with comfort can aid the process.
Patti Davis emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to grieve at one’s own pace, recognizing that the journey through sorrow is unique for each individual. She suggests creating a nurturing environment filled with softness and support to help process feelings of loss, highlighting the significance of comfort during difficult times.
In practice
In a speech at a memorial service to honor a passed loved one.
I think the earlier stages of Alzheimer's are the hardest. Particularly because the person knows that they are losing awareness. They're aware that they're losing awareness, and you see them struggling.
I often imagine what it would be like if my father were still here to mark his 100th birthday, if Alzheimer's hadn't clawed away years, possibilities, hopes. What would he think of all the commemorations and celebrations?
No one ever saw all of him. It took me nearly four decades to allow my father his shadows, his reserve, to sit silently with him and not clamor for something more.
Liquor is the chloroform which enables the poor man to endure the painful operation of living.
Everything was good. But it was awful, too.
I have emerged from the tunnel of grief into the light. Life is better. Not the same, but good and getting better all the time.
And I said, 'That last thing is what you can't get, Carlo. Nobody can get to that last thing. We keep on living in hopes of catching it once and for all.
Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.
Most of American life consists of driving somewhere and then returning home, wondering why the hell you went.
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