Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
When I think of what life is, and how seldom love is answered by love; it is one of the moments for which the world was made.
Interpretation
Life's essence includes the bittersweet reality of unreciprocated love.
E. M. Forster reflects on the nature of life and love, suggesting that much of our existence is shaped by the moments when love is not returned. This poignancy encapsulates the beauty and sadness inherent in human relationships, highlighting how these fleeting experiences contribute to the overall tapestry of life.
In practice
In a speech about the complexity of human emotions, one might quote Forster to illustrate the dual nature of love.
Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
A poem is true if it hangs together. Information points to something else. A poem points to nothing but itself.
One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not to make a mess of life.
Oxford is Oxford: not a mere receptacle for youth, like Cambridge. Perhaps it wants its inmates to love it rather than to love one another.
The fact is we can only love what we know personally. And we cannot know much. In public affairs, in the rebuilding of civilization, something less dramatic and emotional is needed, namely tolerance.
One person with passion is better than forty people merely interested.
For love would be love of the wrong thing; there is yet faith, But the faith and the love and the hope are all in the waiting.
Of the love or hatred God has for the English, I know nothing, but I do know that they will all be thrown out of France, except those who die there.
Sexuality, and sexual orientation - regardless of orientation - is just natural. An act of sex is one of the most human things. But an organization like the church, say, through its doctrine, would undermine humanity by successfully teaching shame about sexual orientation - that it is sinful, or that it offends God. The song is about asserting yourself and reclaiming your humanity through an act of love.
Some words have to be explicitly uttered, Lenore. Only by actually uttering certain words does one really DO what one SAYS. 'Love' is one of those words, performative words. Some words can literally make things real.
Love is desire sustained by unfulfilment.
Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love.
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