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We spend our life until we’re twenty deciding what parts of ourself to put into the bag, and we spend the rest of our lives trying to get them out again.
Robert Bly
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What this quote means

This quote reflects on the process of self-discovery during young adulthood and the ongoing effort to express one's true self throughout life.

Robert Bly's quote encapsulates the struggle of self-identity, emphasizing how young people often conform to societal expectations and norms by 'packing' certain traits and characteristics into a metaphorical bag. As they grow older, they realize the importance of unearthing their authentic selves and embracing all aspects of who they are, which can be a lifelong journey of self-exploration and acceptance.

Themes

IdentitySelf-DiscoveryAuthenticityLifePersonal Growth

In practice

Example use cases

In a graduation speech to encourage students to embrace their true selves.

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