Putting lifestyle first is how you find a job - not a calling.
Interpretation
Prioritizing your lifestyle can lead you to a job that suits your needs, rather than pursuing a passion that may not pay the bills.
In this quote, Paul Kalanithi emphasizes the importance of aligning one's job with personal lifestyle choices rather than searching for a job that fulfills a deeper calling. It suggests that practical considerations about lifestyle can help in finding employment that is not only suitable but also sustainable, reinforcing the idea that not all work needs to fulfill a higher purpose to be valuable.
In practice
This quote could be used in a career counseling session to help clients understand the importance of aligning work with lifestyle.
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