Normal, in our house, is like a blanket too short for a bed--sometimes it covers you just fine, and other times it leaves you cold and shaking; and worst of all, you never know which of the two it's going to be.
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It feels like a punch. Tears fill my eyes, and I wonder how I could be upset over losing something I never had.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses the pain of loss despite never having truly possessed what was lost.
In this quote, Jodi Picoult captures the emotional turmoil of experiencing grief or sadness over an unattainable or imagined connection. It reveals how deep desires and the hope of what could have been can evoke powerful feelings of loss, even when the relationship or situation was never fully realized.
Themes
LossGriefRelationshipsEmotionSadness
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the complexities of love and its discontents.
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