I have with me two gods, Persuasion and Compulsion.
I choose the likely man in preference to the rich man; I want a man without money rather than money without a man.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of character and personal relationships over wealth and material possessions.
In this quote, Themistocles highlights the notion that genuine human connections and integrity are far more valuable than mere financial wealth. Choosing a person of good character, even if they lack riches, reflects a prioritization of meaningful relationships over superficial attributes like money. This perspective encourages individuals to seek companions who possess qualities of trust and reliability rather than those who may be wealthy but lacking in virtue.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about the importance of friendships, this quote can illustrate how personal connections outweigh material gains.
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