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I cannot assume you will understand me. It is just as likely that as I invent what I want to say, you will invent what you want to hear. Some story we must have. Stray words on crumpled paper. A weak signal into the outer space of each other. The probability of seperate worlds meeting is very small. The lure is immense. We send starships. We fall in love
Jeanette Winterson
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What this quote means

Communication between people can often be misunderstood, as we each interpret messages in our own ways.

This quote by Jeanette Winterson highlights the complexities of human communication and the inherent difficulties in truly understanding one another. It suggests that when we express ourselves, we are forming our own narratives, while the listener interprets these messages through their personal lens. The idea of 'separate worlds' emphasizes the challenge in achieving genuine connection, even though we are drawn to each other emotionally. The imagery of 'stray words on crumpled paper' and 'starships' illustrates the fragility and ambition of our attempts to reach one another in love and understanding.

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This quote could be used at a seminar about effective communication in relationships.

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