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The little things, I can obey. But the big things - how we think, what we value - those you must choose yourself. You can't let anyone - or any society - determine those for you.
Morrie Schwartz
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Interpretation

What this quote means

We can follow rules for small matters, but our core beliefs and values must be chosen by ourselves.

This quote emphasizes the importance of individual choice when it comes to our fundamental beliefs and values. While we may comply with societal norms in minor areas, the significant aspects of our identity and how we perceive the world are deeply personal decisions that should not be dictated by others, including society.

Themes

ChoiceValuesIndividualityBeliefsSociety

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be shared during a personal development workshop to encourage self-reflection.

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