Playing dress up begins at age 5 and never really ends.
Kate SpadeRead
Live in such a way, that if someone speaks badly of you no one would belive it. Playing dress-up begins at age five and never truly ends.
Interpretation
Live authentically so that your character is beyond reproach, and recognize that our playful nature persists throughout life.
This quote emphasizes the importance of living a life of integrity and authenticity, such that the notion of being spoken poorly about becomes implausible. It also reflects on the idea that our innate creativity and joy, represented through 'playing dress-up,' continues to influence us well into adulthood, encouraging a balance between seriousness and the freedom to express ourselves creatively.
In practice
During a motivational speech about self-awareness and character.
(on grief) And you do come out of it, that’s true. After a year, after five. But you don’t come out of it like a train coming out of a tunnel, bursting through the downs into sunshine and that swift, rattling descent to the Channel; you come out of it as a gull comes out of an oil-slick. You are tarred and feathered for life.
People tend to put entertainers on pedestals. We're human beings, just like you. You may see us smiling, and whether we have money or not, we still have bills to pay, we still have our stresses. I think a lot of people want to focus on others' shortcomings to make themselves feel better. And it's a very sad thing.
The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude.
You have to pay your own electric bill. You have to be kind. You have to give it all you got. You have to find people who love you truly and love them back with the same truth. But that's all.
So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be.
It's all a farce, - these tales they tell About the breezes sighing, And moans astir o'er field and dell, Because the year is dying.
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