No one escapes from a war. No one. Not even the survivors. You accept things that would appall you at any other time because life has temporarily lost all meaning.
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You live long enough, you lose enough people, you learn to appreciate the memories you have and stop begrudging the ones you never got to make.
Interpretation
With time, we learn to value the memories we create and let go of what we missed.
This quote reflects on the inevitability of loss and the passage of time, emphasizing how these experiences teach us to appreciate the moments we have shared with others. As we lose loved ones throughout our lives, it becomes crucial to cherish the memories we've created rather than lamenting the relationships that never came to be.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a memorial service to honor a loved one.
No one escapes from a war. No one. Not even the survivors. You accept things that would appall you at any other time because life has temporarily lost all meaning.
Gentleman-rankers out on the spree, damned from here to Eternity.
My life is very exciting now. Nostalgia for what? It's like climbing a staircase. I'm on the top of the staircase, I look behind and see the steps. That's where I was. We're here right now. Tomorrow, we'll be someplace else. So why nostalgia?
I want to walk through life instead of being dragged through it.
Life is no straight and easy corridor along which we travel free and unhampered, but a maze of passages, through which we must seek our way, lost and confused, now and again checked in a blind alley. But always, if we have faith, a door will open for us, not perhaps one that we ourselves would ever have thought of, but one that will ultimately prove good for us
It is often said that New York is a city for only the very rich and the very poor. It is less often said that New York is also, at least for those of us who came there from somewhere else, a city for only the very young.
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