Abortions will not let you forget. You remember the children you got that you did not get.
Gwendolyn BrooksRead
You live long enough, you lose enough people, you learn to appreciate the memories you have and stop begrudging the ones you never got to make.
Interpretation
With time, we learn to value the memories we create and let go of what we missed.
This quote reflects on the inevitability of loss and the passage of time, emphasizing how these experiences teach us to appreciate the moments we have shared with others. As we lose loved ones throughout our lives, it becomes crucial to cherish the memories we've created rather than lamenting the relationships that never came to be.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a memorial service to honor a loved one.
Abortions will not let you forget. You remember the children you got that you did not get.
There's so much spectating going on that a lot of us never get around to living.
Her life her life had taken on the shape of a terrible mistake. She hadn't been given the proper tools to make a real life with, she decided, that was it. She'd been given a can of gravy and a hair-brush and told, "There you go." She'd stood there for years, blinking and befuddled, brushing the can with the brush.
And, Joey, if you ever want to know about the japonicas and the daisy fields it will be alright that you have forgotten because I will be able to tell you about how it felt to be feeling that way you cannot quite remember β that will be for the time when something happens years from now that reminds you of now.
My hope for all of us is that 'the miles we go before we sleep' will be filled with all the feelings that come from deep caring--delight , sadness, joy, wisdom--and that in all the endings of our life, we will be able to see the new beginnings.
It's like picking up an unfamiliar piece of sheet music & starting to stumble through it, only to realize it is a melody you'd once learned by heart, one you can play without even trying.
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