Drag was not only my introduction to womanhood, but my introduction to entertainment. It was the first time I realized that I could move a crowd.
Trace LysetteRead
A lot of my chosen family is black and I say that unabashedly. For anyone who doesn't understand that, they just don't understand me and my generation because especially in the LGBT community, the concept of chosen family is so important and it's a survival tactic.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Chosen family refers to a support system of individuals who are not related by blood but share deep connections, especially in the LGBT community.
Trace Lysette emphasizes the importance of 'chosen family' within her community, particularly highlighting its role for those who may face rejection from their biological families. She asserts that this concept is a vital survival tactic for many, especially in the LGBT community, where acceptance and support are crucial for navigating societal challenges.
Themes
Chosen FamilyLgbtSupportCommunitySurvival TacticRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech advocating for inclusivity at a Pride event.
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