A lot of kids are bullied because of their sexual identity or expression. It's often the effeminate boys and the masculine girls, the ones who violate gender norms and expectations, who get bullied.
Interpretation
Bullying often targets children who challenge traditional gender roles and identities.
This quote by Dan Savage highlights the unfortunate reality that many children face bullying due to their nonconformity to established gender norms. It points out that those who express their identities in ways that diverge from societal expectations, such as effeminate boys and masculine girls, are particularly vulnerable to harassment and discrimination.
In practice
In a school assembly addressing bullying, the quote can be used to illustrate the importance of inclusivity.
When I was in high school I got involved in the fringe theater scene in Chicago, and I met some openly gay people. I could see that it got better, that they were happy and loved and supported. I saw with my own eyes that it got better.
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And that really captures the difference for the bullied straight kid versus the bullied gay kid, is that the bullied straight kid goes home to a shoulder to cry on and support and can talk freely about his experience at school and why he's being bullied. [...] And I couldn't go home and open up to my parents.
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