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Love does not alter the beloved, it alters itself.
Soren Kierkegaard
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Love transforms the lover rather than changing the object of their affection.

This quote by Soren Kierkegaard emphasizes that love is an internal experience that alters the individual's perceptions, emotions, and behaviors rather than changing the loved one. It suggests that true love requires self-reflection and growth, highlighting that the essence of love is a personal journey of transformation.

Themes

LoveTransformationSelfGrowthEmotion

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a wedding speech to highlight the transformative power of love.

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