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Love is not a contract between two narcissists.
Alain Badiou
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Love should be selfless and not based on selfish interests.

This quote suggests that true love cannot exist between two people who are solely focused on their own desires and needs. Instead, love requires mutual respect, understanding, and a willingness to put the other person first, moving beyond selfishness to find a deeper connection and commitment.

Themes

LoveSelflessnessRelationshipsNarcissism

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding ceremony to emphasize the importance of selflessness in marriage.

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