I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Marcus AureliusRead
Love only what befalls you and is spun for you by fate.
Interpretation
Embrace everything that happens to you as part of your destiny.
This quote by Marcus Aurelius encourages individuals to accept and love whatever occurs in their lives, suggesting that our experiences are fated or meant to be. It reflects a stoic philosophy that promotes acceptance and gratitude for the events that shape our journey, urging us to find peace in the understanding that everything happens for a purpose.
In practice
During a motivational speech about resilience in facing life's challenges.
I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.
Do not act as if you were going to live ten thousand years. Death hangs over you. While you live, while it is in your power, be good.
Vex not thy spirit at the course of things; they heed not thy vexation. How ludicrous and outlandish is astonishment at anything that may happen in life.
You don't have to turn this into something. It doesn't have to upset you. Things can't shape our decisions by themselves.
A man's worth is no greater than his ambitions.
People live for love. They kill for love. They die for love. They have songs, poems, novels, sculptures, paintings, myths, legends. It's one of the most powerful brain systems on Earth for both great joy and great sorrow.
Falling in love was not really a choice; it just struck me.
Therefore the best fortress is to be found in the love of the people, for although you may have fortresses they will not save you if you are hated by the people.
God knows I didn't mean to fall in love with her
There is no denying that consideration of others is worthwhile and that our happiness is inextricably bound up with the happiness of others. There is no denying that if society suffers, we ourselves suffer, and the more our hearts and minds are afflicted with ill-will, the more miserable we become. We can reject religion, ideology, received wisdom, but we cannot escape the need for love and compassion.
And when you get down to it, Lily, that is the only purpose grand enough for a human life. Not just to love but to persist in love.
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