A dogmatic belief in objective value is necessary to the very idea of a rule which is not tyranny or an obedience which is not slavery.
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Love may, indeed, love the beloved when her beauty is lost: but not because it is lost. Love may forgive all infirmities and love still in spite of them: but Love cannot cease to will their removal. Love is more sensitive than hatred itself to every blemish in the beloved… Of all powers he forgives most, but he condones least: he is pleased with little, but demands all.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True love endures beyond physical appearances and imperfections, yet still desires improvement and perfection in the beloved.
C. S. Lewis highlights the profound nature of love, suggesting that while love can overlook flaws and imperfections, it inherently yearns for the beloved to grow and improve. Love is not blind to the shortcomings of the beloved; rather, it is acutely aware of them and wishes for their betterment, illustrating a balance between acceptance and an aspiration for perfection.
Themes
LoveBeautyForgivenessImperfectionDemandAcceptance
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech when discussing the depth of true love.
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