Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
If they only married when they fell in love, most people would die unwed.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that love is not the only reason to marry, and many would remain single if that were the case.
Robert Louis Stevenson highlights the complexity of love and relationships by implying that romantic love is often not the sole basis for marriage. Many individuals may marry for reasons beyond love, such as companionship, social expectations, or stability, which means that if love were the only criteria, a large number of people might remain unmarried throughout their lives.
In practice
This quote would be perfect for a discussion on the reasons people choose to marry in a sociology class.
Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in time of sorrow.
That man is a success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.
His past was fairly blameless; few men could read the rolls of their life with less apprehension; yet he was humbled to the dust by the many ill things he had done, and raised up again into sober and fearful gratitude by the many he had come so near to doing, yet avoided.
The habit of being happy enables one to be freed, or largely freed, from the domination of outward conditions.
It is the history of our kindnesses that alone make this world tolerable. If it were not for that, for the effect of kind words, kind looks, kind letters . . . I should be inclined to think our life a practical jest in the worst possible spirit.
The thing about gay people is that until we come out of the closet, we're always protecting other people: 'I can't do this, because it's gonna hurt so-and-so.' We're trying to live the lives of other people, and that's the worst thing you can do.
Men hate the haughty of heart who will not be the friend of every man.
So it is that we can seldom help anybody. Either we don't know what part to give or maybe we don't like to give any part of ourselves. Then, more often than not, the part that is needed is not wanted. And even more often, we do not have the part that is needed.
Today, when I saw you, I realized that what is between us is nothing more than an illusion.
Eating is so intimate. It's very sensual. When you invite someone to sit at your table and you want to cook for them, you're inviting a person into your life.
The worst thing to me would be that you put on the face you think people want to see, and then they don't like it and you think, Would they have liked the real me?
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