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We don't love qualities; we love a person; sometimes by reason of their defects as well as their qualities.
Jacques Maritain
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True love encompasses both the strengths and weaknesses of a person.

This quote by Jacques Maritain emphasizes that love is not based solely on the positive traits of an individual; rather, it is a deeper connection that includes an appreciation for their entire being, including flaws. This holistic love recognizes that imperfections can contribute to the uniqueness and depth of the relationship, making it more profound and authentic.

Themes

LovePersonQualitiesDefectsRelationships

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding speech, one might quote this to highlight the depth of the couple's love.

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