Memory was supposed to fill the time, but it made time a hole to be filled. Each second was two hundred yards, to be walked, crawled. You couldn't see the next hour, it was so far in the distance. Tomorrow was over the horizon, and would take an entire day to reach.
We burned with love for ourselves, all of us, starters of the fire we suffered- our love was the affliction for which only our love was the cure.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the dual nature of love, where it can both cause suffering and provide healing.
In this quote, Jonathan Safran Foer explores the idea that love for oneself is both a powerful catalyst and a source of pain. The phrase 'burned with love for ourselves' suggests an intense, perhaps overwhelming passion that can lead to struggle and suffering. However, he also highlights that this very love is what provides the remedy for the anguish it brings, indicating that the journey of self-love is fraught with challenges, yet ultimately essential for healing and personal growth.
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In practice
Example use cases
A speaker at a mental health workshop might use this quote to emphasize the importance of self-acceptance.
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