As long as habit and routine dictate the pattern of living, new dimensions of the soul will not emerge.
Henry Van DykeRead
And you will remember that love is not getting, but giving; not a wild dream of pleasure, and a madness of desire — oh no, love is not that — it is goodness, and honour, and peace, and pure living — yes, love is that; and it is the best thing in the world, and the thing that lives longest.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is about giving and embodying goodness rather than seeking personal pleasure.
This quote emphasizes that true love transcends selfish desires and fleeting pleasures. Instead, it focuses on the virtues of goodness, honor, peace, and pure living, suggesting that love nurtures the best qualities in humanity and endures far longer than mere physical or superficial experiences.
Themes
LoveGivingGoodnessHonorPeacePure Living
In practice
Example use cases
In a wedding ceremony to highlight the essence of love between partners.
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