Do not live with a vocation that is harmful to humans and nature. Do not invest in companies that deprive others of their chance to live. Select a vocation that helps realise your ideal of compassion.
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If you suffer and make your loved ones suffer, there is nothing that can justify your desire.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that personal desires should not come at the expense of the suffering of others, particularly loved ones.
This quote by Thich Nhat Hanh highlights the importance of empathy and compassion in relationships. It suggests that if one's desires lead to suffering for oneself and others, then those desires hold no justification. It urges individuals to reflect on the impact of their actions on their loved ones and to prioritize their well-being over selfish desires.
Themes
SufferingLoveDesireCompassionRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote during a family discussion about balancing personal needs with family responsibilities.
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