All my heart is yours, sir: it belongs to you; and with you it would remain, were fate to exile the rest of me from your presence forever.
Charlotte BronteRead
There is, in lovers, a certain infatuation of egotism; they will have a witness of their happiness, cost that witness what it may.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Lovers often seek validation from others about their happiness, even if it comes at a cost.
In this quote, Charlotte Bronte highlights the self-centered nature of love, suggesting that lovers are often so consumed by their own feelings of joy and bliss that they desire others to acknowledge and witness their happiness. This need for validation can sometimes lead to a disregard for the feelings or consequences facing those who are forced to play the role of the witness.
Themes
LoveHappinessRelationshipsEgotismValidation
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about the nature of romantic relationships and the importance of external validation.
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Charlotte BronteRead
But where are you going to, Helen? Can you see? Do you know?-I believe; I have faith: I am going to God.-Where is God? What is God?-My maker and yours, who will never destroy what He created. I rely implicitly on His power, and confide wholly in His goodness: I count the hours till that eventful one arrives which shall restore me to Him, reveal Him to me.
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