My dear heart, never think you are better than others. Listen to their sorrows with compassion. If you want peace, don't harbor bad thoughts, do not gossip and don't teach what you do not know.
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When you have indulged a lust, your wing drops off; you become lame, abandoned by a fantasy. …People fancy they are enjoying themselves, but they are really tearing out their wings for the sake of an illusion.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Indulgence in temporary pleasures can lead to a loss of true potential and freedom.
This quote by Rumi conveys the idea that giving in to superficial desires can ultimately lead to a loss of one's true abilities or aspirations. The act of indulging in such fantasies causes one to become metaphorically 'lame,' as they sacrifice their wings—representative of freedom and potential—for the fleeting satisfaction of illusionary pleasures.
Themes
IndulgenceIllusionFreedomDesireFantasy
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about the consequences of pursuing fleeting pleasures over long-term fulfillment.
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