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A man can suffocate on courtesy.
Henry David Thoreau
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Excessive politeness can be stifling and insincere.

This quote by Henry David Thoreau suggests that extreme displays of courtesy can become overwhelming and may lack genuine emotion. It implies that while politeness is important, an overabundance can hinder true communication and understanding, leading to a sense of suffocation in relationships or social interactions.

Themes

CourtesyAuthenticityCommunicationRelationshipsPoliteness

In practice

Example use cases

During a meeting, addressing the need for honest feedback despite the courteous atmosphere.

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