A good laugh is a mighty good thing, and rather too scarce a good thing; the more's the pity. So, if any one man, in his own proper person, afford stuff for a good joke to anybody, let him not be backward, but let him cheerfully allow himself to spend and be spent in that way. And the man that has anything bountifully laughable about him, be sure there is more in that man than you perhaps think for.
Because no man can ever feel his own identity aright except his eyes be closed; as if darkness were indeed the proper element of our essences, though light be more congenial to our clayey part.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that true understanding of oneself may only come through introspection, often in darkness, rather than through the external light that represents societal perception.
Herman Melville's quote reflects on the nature of self-identity and the tension between internal and external perceptions. It suggests that a person cannot fully grasp their essence or true self unless they turn inward, often symbolized by 'closing the eyes' or looking into darkness. This metaphor indicates that while external validation (the 'light') is appealing, the real understanding of one’s identity requires a deeper, often uncomfortable, journey into the self (the 'darkness').
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In practice
Example use cases
During a personal development workshop, the facilitator quoted Melville to emphasize the importance of looking within.
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