If you want to remember yourself, the best thing is not to think about yourself. As long as you think about yourself, you will not remember yourself.
P.D. OuspenskyRead
When a man begins to know himself a little he will see in himself many things that are bound to horrify him. So long as a man is not horrified at himself he knows nothing about himself.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Self-awareness often leads to uncomfortable truths about oneself.
This quote speaks to the journey of self-discovery and the often unsettling realizations that come with introspection. It suggests that true knowledge of oneself is accompanied by the recognition of flaws, fears, and darker aspects of one’s personality which, while difficult to confront, are essential for personal growth and understanding.
Themes
Self-AwarenessIntrospectionPersonal GrowthHorrificationSelf-Knowledge
In practice
Example use cases
In a seminar about personal development, this quote can inspire discussion on self-discovery.
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