How seldom we weigh our neighbor in the same balance with ourselves.
Thomas A KempisRead
Be Yourself -The man who is neither bent upon pleasing his fellows nor afraid of offending them will enjoy great peace.
Interpretation
Being true to oneself leads to inner peace, free from the need for external approval.
This quote emphasizes the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance. It suggests that true contentment comes from being oneself, rather than constantly trying to please others or fearing their disapproval. When a person is not swayed by the opinions of others, they can achieve a deep sense of peace and fulfillment in life.
In practice
In a motivational speech about self-acceptance.
How seldom we weigh our neighbor in the same balance with ourselves.
He will easily be content and at peace, whose conscience is pure.
Trust not to your feelings for whatever they might be now, they will quickly be changed towards some other thing.
Jesus has many who love the kingdom of God, but few who bear a cross. He has many who desire His comfort, but few who desire His suffering. All want to rejoice with him, but few are willing to suffer for Him. He writes; there are many who admire his miracles, but there are few who follow in the humiliation of the cross.
Anyone who thinks hard work will never hurt you has never had to pay to have it done. Jesus now has many lovers of his Heavenly Kingdom, but few bearers of his cross.
He has great tranquillity of heart who cares neither for the praises nor the fault-finding of men. He will easily be content and pacified, whose conscience is pure. You are not holier if you are praised, nor the more worthless if you are found fault with. What you are, that you are; neither by word can you be made greater than what you are in the sight of God.
It is better to be looked over than overlooked.
"Beauty fades," my father would tell me, "but dumb? Dumb is forever."
Worrying is like paying a debt you don't owe.
In the attitude of silence the soul finds the path in a clearer light, and what is elusive and deceptive resolves itself into crystal clearness. Our life is a long and arduous quest after Truth.
And for all these people alike, the key to healing turned out to be the same. Each had a hurt he had to forgive.
I know that no business contract, no order or commercial consideration can ever be worth the happiness of one's home or the peace of one's mind.
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