No man doth think others will be better to him than he is to them.
Benjamin WhichcoteRead
Man is a wonder to himself; he can neither govern nor know himself.
Interpretation
The quote expresses the complex and contradictory nature of human self-understanding and self-governance.
Benjamin Whichcote highlights the paradox of human existence; while individuals are capable of great thought and wonder, they often struggle to comprehend their own motivations and actions. This suggests that self-awareness and governance are challenging aspects of the human experience, raising questions about the nature of identity and personal agency.
In practice
In a discussion about personal growth during a workshop, this quote can encapsulate our struggles with self-discovery.
No man doth think others will be better to him than he is to them.
Some things must be good in themselves, else there could be no measure whereby to lay out good and evil.
Believe things, rather than man.
Right and truth are greater than any power, and all power is limited by right.
Conscience without judgment is superstition.
That power is in vain which is never in use.
When I was modelling, I spent half my life staring at thousands of perfect reflections. It got to a stage where I was losing all sense of reality - so after I quit modelling, I took all the mirrors out of my house.
I was born poor and without religion, under a happy sky, feeling harmony, not hostility, in nature. I began not by feeling torn, but in plenitude.
The Union was formed by the voluntary agreement of the States; and these, in uniting together, have not forfeited their Nationality, nor have they been reduced to the condition of one and the same people. If one of the States chose to withdraw its name from the contract, it would be difficult to disprove its right of doing so.
Men owe us what we imagine they will give us. We must forgive them this debt.
Many media commercials encourage us to believe that if we buy a certain product, we can be physically appealing, or popular, or successful. According to the commercial message, it may be easy to make friends and influence people if we simply do what we're told to do. It would be wonderful if that were true, but unfortunately life does not seem to work that way. What is inside of us can be much more important and influential than what is outside.
Mythology is not a lie, mythology is poetry, it is metaphorical. It has been well said that mythology is the penultimate truth--penultimate because the ultimate cannot be put into words. It is beyond words. Beyond images, beyond that bounding rim of the Buddhist Wheel of Becoming. Mythology pitches the mind beyond that rim, to what can be known but not told.
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