What is most original in a man's nature is often that which is most desperate. Thus new systems are forced on the world by men who simply cannot bear the pain of living with what is. Creators care nothing for their systems except that they be unique. If Hitler had been born in Nazi Germany he wouldn't have been content to enjoy the atmosphere.
I heard of a man who says words so beautifully that if he only speaks their name women give themselves to him. If I am dumb beside your body while silence blossoms like tumors on our lips it is because I hear a man climb stairs and clear his throat outside our door.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the power of words and their ability to evoke strong emotions, particularly in the context of love and attraction.
In this quote, Leonard Cohen reflects on the profound impact that eloquent speech can have on relationships and desire. He juxtaposes the beauty of a man's words, which captivate women, with his own silence in the presence of love, suggesting that even in moments of quiet, external influences can disrupt intimacy. The imagery of words and silence encapsulates the complexities of communication and the deep connections formed through both spoken and unspoken exchanges.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a romantic speech to emphasize the beauty of communication in love.
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Be With Me In The Phases Of My Work Because My Brain Feels Like It Has Been Whipped And I Yearn To Make A Small Perfect Thing Which Will Live In Your Morning Like Curious Static Through A President's Elegy Or A Nude Hunchback Acquiring A Tan On The Crowded Oily Beach.
I think what we like about music - and what we like about art in general....is that enterprise that stops our minds from spinning. Because we're always all over the place. A good song, a good lyric is a movie: it will just focus and calm and confer significance on this completely bewildering reality that all of us live in.
Most of the time one is discouraged by the work, but now and again by some grace something stands out and invites you to work on it, to elaborate it or animate it in some way. It's a mysterious process.
Ring the bells that still can ring.
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