Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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Not to converse with a man worthy of conversation is to waste the man. To converse with a man not worthy of conversation is to waste words. The wise waste neither men nor words.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Valuable conversations should only be had with those who can appreciate them, to avoid wasting time and words.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of meaningful dialogue and discernment in communication. Engaging with individuals who possess wisdom and insight enriches mutual understanding and growth, whereas speaking with those who lack appreciation for such exchanges results in a squander of both the person's time and the words spoken. Ultimately, the wise choose their conversations carefully, ensuring they are both productive and valuable.
Themes
ConversationWisdomCommunicationValueWords
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion on effective communication skills during a workshop.
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