Common sense (which, in truth, is very uncommon) is the best sense I know of: abide by it; it will counsel you best.
Lord ChesterfieldRead
A man's own good breeding is the best security against other people's ill manners.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Good manners and breeding help protect an individual from the rudeness of others.
This quote suggests that possessing good breeding and manners serves as a defense mechanism against the negativity or ill behaviors exhibited by others. It implies that an individual's character and grace can shield them from external negativity, promoting a more dignified response in social interactions.
Themes
MannersBreedingSecurityIllBehaviorsRudeness
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the importance of social etiquette, one might say this quote to emphasize how good breeding can help navigate difficult situations.
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