We call those poets who are first to mark, Through earth's dull mist the coming of the dawn, Who see in twilight's gloom the first pale spark, While others only note that day is gone.
Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.Read
To obtain a man's opinion of you, make him mad.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Getting someone's true feelings often requires provoking them.
This quote suggests that in order to truly understand how someone feels about you, it can be effective to elicit an emotional response from them, particularly anger. Through intense emotions, the facade of politeness or indifference may fall away, revealing genuine opinions and sentiments that might otherwise remain hidden.
Themes
RelationshipsOpinionsAngerTruthEmotions
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion about personal feelings, one might quote this to highlight the complexities of understanding relationships.
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