By the time a child reaches out to an adult, the vast majority of kids have been dealing with the bullying and trying to ignore it for a long time.
Rosalind WisemanRead
Many kids who are bullied feel helpless. Sometimes, they think the only thing they can do is hope the problem will go away. But there are things you can do to get some control in the situation and it starts with developing a strategy and a support system.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of taking action and seeking support when facing bullying.
Rosalind Wiseman highlights the feelings of helplessness that many children experience when they are bullied. Instead of passively waiting for the situation to improve on its own, she encourages them to actively develop strategies and seek out support systems, which can empower them to gain control over their circumstances.
Themes
BullyingHelplessnessControlStrategySupport
In practice
Example use cases
In a school assembly discussing mental health, this quote could inspire students to seek help when they feel bullied.
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